I'm insecure, antisocial, and slightly sadistic with nothing to live for. My ideal mate would be a paranoid, unattractive creep with poor hygiene. She would have to be selfish, unromantic and thoughtless. A family history of psychosis would be a plus. HA ya still reading??? What? You know a person just like that. Hey I was only kidding. Geesh! I'm confident and a little feisty at times. I am not into mental or physical abuse. I am secure with who I am and I don't need to control anyone. I believe in treating people the way that I want to be treated, and yes, I will help that little old lady or man with their packages or flat tire. (and not just when someone is watching). But rest assured, I am male and so do have inherent genetic faults. I am a real person, I am not looking for a one night stand!  I want to find the someone that I can feel good with and enjoy each others company. The ideal lady that I am looking for should feel comfortable in blue jeans, as well as getting dressed up. She is happy with herself and is looking for someone special to accent her life. She is a bit of a tomboy and doesn't mind getting her hands dirty while planting spring flowers or camping and is willing to at least consider trying something once. She enjoys home cooked meals as well as eating out. (By the way, I enjoy cooking!) She is an intelligent woman who is loving and caring. She is an attractive female in her own way, but it doesn't take her too many hours in front of a mirror to get things just so. She is not afraid to show affection or express her feelings, and she is willing to tell me about her good or bad day. When she's feeling blue I would like to be there to hug, hold and comfort her. She enjoys holding hands and giving that little squeeze that means so much.